Friday, October 25, 2013

Army, Legos, Video Games...and a Fashion Show?


Picking out materials at our
Unschooler Craft Shindig.
A few weeks back, my children and I were at one of our Unschooler Craft Shindigs at a friend's house. In the midst of the rather messy festivities, my middle daughter and some of her friends all headed downstairs to check out the area in the basement where the fashion show they were all participating in was going to be held.  As they disappeared, my 9 year old son (continuing to work side by side with me on his WWII army boat made out of recyclable materials) very quietly and without looking at me, muttered, "I'm going to tell you something but don't say anything so that anyone else can hear you."   Say what??  He repeated himself - quietly and once again without looking at me.  "I'm going to tell you something but don't say anything so that anyone else can hear you."   Alrighty.  My curiosity was piqued.
WWII army boat built out of
recyclable materials!

"I kind of want to be in the fashion show.  But don't say anything out loud so anyone can hear you."

Now, my 9 year old son is into a great many things.  Playing army, WWII and all things military, natural disasters, video games, football, hockey, basketball, legos, legos and more legos...to name a few.   Fashion shows are not something that had ever come up before.  And being that he's generally on the shy, *don't look at me or draw any kind of attention to me in any way* side, I will admit to being a teeny tiny bit surprised by his murmured confession.   But after an awkwardly whispered conversation, we headed down the stairs to see if there might be a chance he could join in on upcoming fashion show.

It didn't seem to bother the girls that my son wished to participate.  We received our little tour of the to-be runway, etc., and got instructions about what outfits he'd need (hipster, fancy and summer).  Mind you, this boy of mine pretty much maintained a mostly disinterested look on his face the ENTIRE TIME.  No big deal.  Whatever. (Don't look at me.)

Yep, I thought, it's gonna be interesting to see how this turns out.

About a week before the show, we made a trip to a local consignment store to pick out the hipster and fancy outfits and accessories.  The lady at the counter pointed us in the right direction and then inquired if we were shopping for Halloween costumes.   Not wanting to embarrass my son, I distractedly murmured something about a fashion show and nodded in the direction of my 12 year old daughter and then moved on.  Shortly after though, my shy guy asked if I had told her he was in a fashion show.  I reassured him I hadn't said anything about him.   There was a pause.   He then asked me if I was going to.  He then asked when I was going to.  He then asked if I had yet.  Over the course of the hour we were there shopping, he asked me no less than 5 times when I was going to tell her that he was in a fashion show.

Modeling his hipster look.
Not so subtle hint received.

As we were paying (and after one more whispered, "are you going to tell her I'm in a fashion show?"), I let the lady know that this handsome young man next to me who had helped pick out these funky and fancy outfits was going to be in a fashion show next week.  She oooh'd and aaah'd and asked curious questions and generally looked sufficiently impressed - enough to please this 9 year old boy of mine (even though he barely cracked a smile throughout the whole conversation).

All dressed up.
Flash forward to the fashion show:  my turn to be impressed.  Who'd have thought? Certainly not me.  My son came out and totally worked the "runway".  He paused for the description of each outfit, posed for pics and generally had sass and attitude.  He rocked it!  And I was surprised.  Thrilled and impressed...but admittedly, surprised.


In retrospect, I guess I really shouldn't have been so shocked.  I mean seriously, he does have two older sisters and a mom who watch shows like What Not to Wear, Say Yes to the Dress, Project Runway and Dancing with the Stars.  I also seem to remember a brief snippet in time (long, long ago) where he was very much into putting on little dance routines in our living room...complete with blaring music, an Indiana Jones fedora, mid-routine stripped off shirt a la Dancing with the Stars, and an impressive flashlight light show courtesy of an older sister.
Camo themed "summer look". 


On the ride home after our exciting Fashion Show Extravaganza, my handsome little modeling dude critiqued everyone else's performances.  Who paused the right amount time, who went too fast, how you needed to give the announcer time to read the description of your outfit and to hold a pose long enough so the audience could take pictures.

My my, one fashion show under his belt and already he's quite the expert.


Thursday, October 24, 2013

Hearts for Home Blog Hop #40




Welcome to this week's Hearts for Home Blog Hop.  The Hearts for Home Blog Hop is all about sharing encouraging and inspiring posts that show your heart is for your home and family.  Family friendly topics are welcome and include homeschooling, homemaking, cooking/recipes, parenting, marriage, faith, family, crafts, and the like.

The most clicked on post from last week was from First Comes Love: 




I had THREE favorites from last week.  Just couldn't narrow it down to one or two! 

I personally have a passion for living books and am also a rabid Harry Potter fan.  I loved the perspective that Don't Forget the Avocados shared: "Recently, a friend asked me why I think it is O.K. for kids to read Harry Potter.  This is the kind of conversation that can go in many directions, but is ultimately less about the specifics of J.K. Rowling's work and is more about the proper role of literature in a Christian child's upbringing.  For me, it is also a discussion that highlights the philosophy of classical education."





This Woman Writes shares her feelings on being a Christian and celebrating Halloween: "Halloween is one of the many subjects about which good people disagree, and as a person who comes out swinging with very little provocation, I have to admit that it's hard to keep my mouth shut when someone tells another person how wicked she is for dressing her child up as a pink bunny and escorting her from door to door with a hollow orange plastic orange plastic pumpkin."




And last but not least, some yummy goodness from This Woman Writes - a recipe for Peanut Butter Muffins.  On my to-do list for this coming week! 





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Thursday, October 17, 2013

Hearts for Home Blog Hop #39




Welcome to this week's Hearts for Home Blog Hop.  The Hearts for Home Blog Hop is all about sharing encouraging and inspiring posts that show your heart is for your home and family.  Family friendly topics are welcome and include homeschooling, homemaking, cooking/recipes, parenting, marriage, faith, family, crafts, and the like.

The most clicked on post from last week was from Mom's Mustard Seeds: 




My favorite post from last week is again from The Measured Mom who shares a guest post about how much our children learn from being involved in the kitchen: "When you think of places where kids learn, schools and classrooms are probably the first places that come to mind. While kids do achieve much of their learning from inside a classroom, there's another learning-conducive area that kids have access to on a daily basis: the kitchen."





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Sunday, October 13, 2013

The Reality of How We Do Nature Study



Nature study.  For some, the phrase invokes lovely images of a mom and her brood of children walking together serenely through a field or woods, lingering perhaps to sketch a leaf here and a butterfly there, carefully collecting treasures for later and closer examination, with mom calmly offering necessary guidance and pointing out various points of interest.

Well, in theory, this is kind of what our family does.

In theory.  In practice, not quite so picturesque or calm and serene.

We muck about.  We tromp. We go off the path. We get lost.  (Always take the time to stop and get a map.  Just saying.)



I always bring along small paper bags, plastic ziplock baggies and a critter container for all the fascinating specimens discovered along the way on our nature walks.  But the reality is, that over the years it's been my pockets that end of getting stuffed with all the *treasures*.  Some are slimy.  Some leak.  Some are dead.  Some aren't. *shudder*  And for some reason I have yet to figure out, I always seem to be left carrying a very big stick.  Always.


We spend forever in one spot on our walks.  Not moving forward. Forever. So much to see, so much to discover - but we're easily distracted from the well trodden path.  A mucky pond area, a fallen tree, a dried up creek bed full of water snails...they beckon and invite.  So we stay.


There's no plan.  No lesson.  No carefully coordinated and themed notebooking pages.

What we do is messy.  It's dirty.  It's chaotic.  And in case I didn't mention it before, so much fun!

This approach to nature study is *us*.   It fits.  And I personally find it's where the true magic and wonder happens.  Off the path - in the muck and bramble (and poison ivy) - there are unusual discoveries to be found, interesting adventures to be had...and by far, the best memories are made.


It would be well if we all persons in authority, parents of all who act for parents, could make up our minds that there is no sort of knowledge to be got in these early years so valuable to children as that which they get for themselves of the world they live in.  Let them once get in touch with Nature, and a habit is formed which will be a source of delight through life.  We were all meant to be naturalists, each to his degree, and it is inexcusable to live in a world so full of the marvels of plant and animal life and to care for none of these things. - Charlotte Mason



Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Hearts for Home Blog Hog #38




Welcome to this week's Hearts for Home Blog Hop.  The Hearts for Home Blog Hop is all about sharing encouraging and inspiring posts that show your heart is for your home and family.  Family friendly topics are welcome and include homeschooling, homemaking, cooking/recipes, parenting, marriage, faith, family, crafts, and the like.

The most clicked on post from last week was from The Measured Mom: 




Two of my favorite posts from last week are shared below.  First there's the lovely imagery from Home to 4 Kiddos visit to Assateague National Park and then top it off with This Sweet Life's yummy recipe for Baked French Toast with Blueberry Syrup.  Mmmmm.....:)








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Monday, October 7, 2013

Lightning, Hurricanes, Tornadoes: How's the Weather?

My youngest is seriously obsessed with the weather.  Specifically, weather and natural disasters.  Tsunamis, hurricanes, volcanic eruptions, mud slides, earthquakes, floods, thunderstorms, lightning and most especially of all...tornadoes!   These topics simultaneously fascinate -and- absolutely terrify him (anybody ever checked a 9 year old boy's closet for terrorists, snipers, child-eating giants and tornadoes?).

Over the years, my son and I have spent countless hours wondering, pondering, discussing and researching his weather related questions.  Google, library books, documentaries, movies...you name it, we've watched it, read it, utilized it.

So imagine my thrill when one of the moms from our local unschooling group facilitated a meeting for our weather-minded kiddos with Notre Dame Meterologist, Ed Bensman!   Mr. Bensman was kind enough to agree to meet up with our little group and share his vast knowledge, experience and passion for the weather. He came prepared, bringing along scads of colorful maps, a small globe (to better illustrate how the seasons change, why the sun "sets" and the cycles of the moon), and a great big bucket to demonstrate how a tornado works.

Mr. Bensman shared lots of information with the kids (and us curious moms) and patiently answered all of our questions (way better than google or youtube ever could).  We talked about how the seasons change, tornadoes, the cycles of the moon, tornadoes, wind, tornadoes, how snowflakes form, tornadoes, thunderstorms and lightning, tornadoes, cloud formation and rain, tornadoes, hurricanes, tornadoes, dust devils and...tornadoes.

Water tornado in a bucket!
In case you didn't notice, just about every other question asked by our budding meteorologists ended up being about tornadoes (with some extra ponderings on lightning and thunderstorms tossed in for good measure) - even when the topic being discussed wasn't about tornadoes.  This didn't phase our mentor at all.  In fact, he has great ideas he's going to work on for our next session...planning a bit more around our children's specific interests.  You guessed it...tornadoes.

Zach's friend Elijah,
ND Meteorologist Ed Bensman,
and Zach.